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Three Charged With Hate Crime For Alleged Anti-Gay Attack On Train

Three Evanston, Illinois men are charged with a hate crime for an attack on a man they perceived to be gay, according to the Cook County State's Attorney's office. (Photo left to right Sean Little, Benjamin Eder, Kevin McAndrew) The attack happened January 10 on a CTA Red Line train. The three men allegedly began making "anti-gay" remarks to a passenger. Another passenger got involved and the men then physically attacked him. Prosecutors say the men beat the 33-year-old victim and called him "faggot" and other derogatory terms. The fight spilled out to the platform when the train stopped at the Argyle Station and police came and broke it up. The men charged are Sean Little, 21, Benjamin Eder, 23, and Kevin McAndrew, 23. They were originally charged with misdemeanor battery. The hate crime charges were filed yesterday. If convicted, they face a maximum 5 year sentence. “The damage of a crime such as this goes well beyond the original victim and permeates the entire community," said State's Attorney Anita Alvarez in a press release. "These crimes are taken seriously and they will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law.” Bond for each suspect was set at $10,000.

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Gay Man Escapes Bloody Beating Saying He Was HIV-Positive

A Chicago area man said three men yelled gay slurs at him and beat him on a CTA Red Line train about 3 a.m. Sunday near the Argyle stop. Daniel Hauff, 33, said he tried to quell a dispute between two men on the train when one of them, joined by two other riders, began yelling gay slurs and other taunts at him. Hauff said he pressed the emergency intercom, and the conductor came. But the conductor soon left, Hauff said, and the train started moving again. Hauff said the men beat him while the train was between the Wilson and Argyle stops. "And I never once threw a punch," Hauff said. "It's just not in my nature." Hauff said he got away by wiping some of his blood on the attackers and telling them he was HIV-positive, which was not true. Police said three men were arrested in the 1100 block of West Argyle Street for misdemeanor battery and "making disparaging comments," though the report had nothing specific about anti-gay comments. Police said the suspects were released Sunday on bail. Hauff said he was released from a hospital around 6 a.m. He said his face, chest, back, knee and foot were in pain, but nothing was broken. Hauff said the conductor should have stayed at the scene before the altercation escalated and the police should have been called earlier. CTA spokeswoman Katelyn Thrall said "the operator appropriately called the police" promptly. Story Chicago Tribune

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Employees Of Gay Newspaper Walk Out After Not Getting Paycheck.

The future of gay weekly the Chicago Free Press is in question after senior employees walked out on Monday, ChicagoPride.com reported. Editor in Chief Matt Simonette told the Chicago Tribune that employees had not resigned but walked out because they had not been paid. He said many staffers did not receive a paycheck on December 15. “The senior staff did not resign; it was just simply a matter of leaving because of non-payment,” Simonette said. “People were coming in there and doing their jobs for free. It didn't sit well with us.” The Chicago Free Press is one of two Chicago weeklies that serve the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community.  The other is Windy City Times. David Costanzo, whose Rainbow Media acquired the weekly in 2002, admitted the paper has suffered setbacks over the past year, saying advertising revenues remain down. “The last two to three payrolls, we've been having issues from a cash-flow standpoint,” he said. “Over the last two payrolls, we had to delay some paychecks.” Costanzo promised the paper will come out on time Thursday. Joining the walkout were the paper's art director, senior writer, graphic designer and many of its writers, Simonette said. The disgruntled employees formed a Facebook page that has attracted 25 members, mostly current and former employees of the paper. Earlier in the year, the mini gay publishing empire of Window Media cratered under the weight of its financial obligations, ending press runs for LGBT papers from Florida to Washington, including the iconic Washington Blade.

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Celebrating The Holidays In Big Gay Style In The USA

All across the USA this holiday season, there are myriad events and celebrations that are guaranteed to get you in the spirit of things. In Southern California, the warm weather keeps people outdoors, and the sensational boat parades in San Diego and Marina Del Rey are not to be missed. Beginning with the famous White Party and concluding with Key West’s most famous drag queen being dropped from a giant, red, high-heel, south Florida’s holiday season is all about keeping things hot. If you’re heading to the Big Apple, make sure to visit its world-renowned attractions and the New York City Gay Men’s Chorus holiday extravaganza. Not far away, in the City of Brotherly Love everyone celebrates by dressing up in elaborate costumes for the Mummers Parade, while the New England charm of Boston attracts visitors in droves for special holiday events like the over-the-top First Night New Year’s celebration. Above all, the holidays are about celebrating life, love, and peace on earth with the ones you love. Let us guide you through the most magical time of year. Besides, with all the great holiday hotel packages available, it doesn’t pay to be a Scrooge. SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA The opening of Irving Berlin’s “White Christmas,” is all about celebrating Christmas in Los Angeles: “The sun is shining, The grass is green, The orange and palm trees sway. I’ve never seen such a day, In Beverly Hills LA. But it’s December the 24th, And I am longing to be up North. I’m dreaming of a white Christmas…”   It’s true that it is harder to get into the Currier & Ives swing of things when you still have to apply sunscreen to go caroling, but Southern California provides it’s own unique brand of festivity during the holiday season. LOS ANGELES Some may grouse that the Christmas season has become too commercial, but if you’re going to shop, it is hard to beat Rodeo Drive in Beverly Hills. Start early this year, (November 21) when UNICEF (www.unicefusa.org) lights the annual holiday snowflake display at the Beverly Wilshire Hotel. There is the added benefit of celebrities headlining the festivities, followed by fireworks. Find December updates at www.lovebeverlyhills.org The holidays are also about giving, and one of the finest charitable organizations deserving your support is The Trevor Project (www.thetrevorproject.org), the leading national organization focused on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among LGBTQ youth. Their annual fundraiser, Cracked Xmas, fills the night with irreverent comedy, music, and special awards. This year, on December 6, the primary honoree is Neil Patrick Harris, so expect a capacity crowd. The weekend of December 19 and 20, enjoy the same-sex spin on The Nutcracker as presented by the Los Angeles Gay Men’s Chorus (www.gmcla.org) when they sprinkle plenty of laughs and extra holiday music into the Tchaikovsky ballet. The annual Skirball Cultural Center Hanukkah Family Festival (www.skirball.org) has become one of the city’s most beloved celebrations of the Festival of Lights. Take a workshop in lamp-making, perfect your dreidel spinning, and enjoy amazing foods from celebration traditions around the world. Since The Grove (www.thegrovela.com) became everybody’s favorite shopping mall, the next-door Farmer’s Market (www.farmersmarketla.com) has had quite a renaissance, and this year marks the market’s 75th anniversary. The annual holiday celebrations have something for everyone, from Christmas carolers and decorations to menorah lighting to Winter Solstice festivities. Live bands, artisans, and strolling minstrels keep December festive at this historic center at the corner of Fairfax and Third. The Mayan Theatre in downtown LA welcomes back the big, gay, ten-year anniversary of Masterbeat’s Last Dance (www.newyearsla.com) New Year’s Eve party. Thousands of LGBT revelers and friends dance under one of the world’s largest disco balls until 6 A.M. on the first morning of 2010. The world’s best DJs spin at one of the most popular indoor events to ring in the New Year. MARINA DEL REY Each year, on the second Saturday of December (December 12 this year), the coastal community of Marina del Rey brings yuletide cheer in off the Pacific with the Holiday Boat Parade (www.mdrboatparade.org). A tradition for nearly 50 years, local boaters decorate and light their boats in holiday themes and parade through the harbor. The reflection of thousands of lights off the waters of the marina doubles the spectacle, as do the fireworks over the harbor that sets the night alight. Surf over to www.visitmarinadelrey.com for all the holiday happenings. SANTA MONICA The 25th anniversary celebration of Cirque du Soleil (www.cirquedusoleil.com/kooza) continues in Santa Monica through December 20 with KOOZA (coinciding with this year’s celebration of the 100th anniversary of the Santa Monica Pier). Meanwhile, on SaMo’s Main Street, December 5 and 6, is the Holiday Event (www.mainstreetsm.com) with tree lighting, live music, Santa, carolers, and a candlelight walk. Plan your beachside celebrating at www.santamonica.com WEST HOLLYWOOD The independent City of West Hollywood started a new trend last year with the Avenues of Art & Design Holiday Shopping Night (www.avenuesartdesign.com). This year’s night of extended hours at stores along Melrose and Robertson/Beverly makes for a lovely stroll on December 10. The Pacific Design Center is the anchor and more than 300 businesses participate with special discounts, snacks, beverages, and signature gifts. Afterwards, enjoy a cocktail with friends at The Abbey (www.abbeyfoodandbar.com), West Hollywood’s über-gay club/bar/coffeehouse. For up-to-the-minute planning ideas go to www.visitwesthollywood.com SAN DIEGO San Diego’s winter evenings don’t feel a lot different from the summertime, but the December 4 and 5 Balboa Park December Nights (www.balboapark.org/decembernights) add a seasonal flair—it is the largest free community festival in the city and includes ice skating, caroling, music, dance, performances, and Native American traditional ceremonies. The weekend keeps the cultural fires burning with free admission to over 80 museums. Make like the birds and fly south for the winter. Only in San Diego can you ice skate by the beach. The Hotel del Coronado (www.hoteldel.com) offers a unique experience with Skating by the Sea, an outdoor ice skating rink overlooking the Pacific. November 25–December 19, the resort’s famous lawn is iced over for a great skating opportunity (wear your sunblock). December 1–27, Lamb’s Players Theatre (www.lambsplayers.org) presents its annual Festival of Christmas. This year’s performance adds a little disco to the Christmas mix with a world premiere performance set in a recording studio in the 1970s, blasting the music of the season. San Diego gets in on the floating light parade December 13 and 20 with the 38th annual Bay Parade of Lights (www.sdparadeoflights.org). More than 100 private boat owners try to outdo one another with over-the-top illuminated decorations as they trawl the bay. Keeping the nautical theme going, SeaWorld San Diego’s Holiday Celebration (www.seaworld.com) returns for the third year on weekends from November 27-New Year’s Eve. Sea lions and otters perform in Christmas shows, and Shamu the Killer Whale has his own Holiday Night show. During the season, reindeer, penguins, Arctic foxes, and more augment the typically tropical-themed animal exhibits. Find out more at www.sandiego.org SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA HOLIDAY PACKAGES Hilton Checkers, 535 South Grand Ave, LA Tel: 213-624-0000. Private Holiday Shopping Tour in the LA Fashion District starting at $214. A personal guide escorts you to small boutiques and sample sales known only to locals and insiders. Package includes: guestroom, late check out, private shopping, breakfast for two, souvenir shopping bag, water, and snacks. www.hiltoncheckers.com Kyoto Grand, 120 South Los Angeles St, LA. Tel: 888-354-0831. Celebrate the Holidays: A December Package in Los Angeles, $249. Deluxe room, breakfast for two, $50 American Express Gift Card, parking. www.kyotograndhotel.com The Millennium Biltmore, 506 South Grand Ave, LA. Tel: 800-245-8673. Silver Bells Package: $219-$269. Includes accommodations in Classic or Club Level room, valet parking, daily breakfast for two, and a $25 Macy’s giftcard. November 26–December 30. www.thebiltmore.com Montage Beverly Hills, 225 N. Canon Dr. Beverly Hills. Tel: 310-860-7891. The “Holiday Couples Culinary Connection with Chef John Cuevas” package is a rare private holiday dining experience with their executive chef. You and your culinary companion will meet with the chef to select the perfect holiday menu and then join him in hands-on cooking classes and demonstrations to prepare the dinner together. Return later that evening with your guests (8 minimum, up to a total of 12) to savor the feast. Everyone receives a monogrammed chef’s coat. www.montagebeverlyhills.com O Hotel, 819 South Flower St, LA. Tel: 213-623-9904. The downtown urban boutique hotel offers a “Stay & Play Package,” $156–$168, from November 21–December 30. Two-night weekend stay, $25 museum voucher, wine, and valet parking. www.ohotelgroup.com Twenty-five participating Santa Monica hotels offer a promotion through December 31 that gives guests a third night free with the purchase of two nights. They also provide vouchers for a free bike rental, a day pass on the Big Blue Bus, free carousel rides, and free Ferris Wheel rides for up to two guests. To see a list of participating hotels go to www.santamonica.com/save

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SOUTH FLORIDA PALM SPRINGS If you are able to get away from the big city for a little desert fun, the big, gay mecca of Palm Springs will surely be your destination. On December 5, the city celebrates with its annual Festival of Lights Parade (www.paradesofpalmsprings.com). That evening glows with illuminated floats, equestrian groups, marching bands, and local celebrities practicing their most courtly waves.   While you’re in the desert, why not do some camping? No, not with tents and campfires, but with the Follies Holiday Show (www.psfollies.com). Every November and December, the elder statesmen and women of the Follies present a lavish holiday show with a gentle snowfall in the theatre, candy cane girls, and a Hanukkah bear all surrounded by high-kicking chorines in their 60s, 70s, and 80s. This year’s special guest is Susan Anton. www.visitpalmsprings.com has more to make your desert holiday pitch perfect. The weather outside is rarely frightful in Southern Florida, so it’s a challenge to conjure Jack Frost nipping at your nose, but there is no challenge to finding fun throughout the holiday season. From South Beach and Fort Lauderdale to the southernmost point in the US in Key West, you won’t need mittens or a scarf, but you will need plenty of energy to keep up. MIAMI You can’t just coast from the White Party (www.whiteparty.org) November 25–30, to the Winter Party (www.winterparty.com) March 3–8. There’s a whole season of Miami revelry in between to enjoy the warm holidays beneath beautiful blue skies. To set the tone for the season, go to the Miami-Dade Tropical Park and you’ll be awed by the transformation. Evenings from mid-November through mid-January, the landscaped gardens, lake, equestrian center, tennis courts, and meandering paths become Santa’s Enchanted Forest (www.santasenchantedforest.com). More than three million lights sparkle among holiday displays, a carnival area, and live shows ranging from kiddie entertainment to stunt and thrill shows. It is the “world’s largest Christmas theme park” and has a bit of an international flare with food options from around the world, including Greece, Mexico, and Italy. You can do some major holiday shopping, or feather your own nest with flair, because Miami’s art scene is at its peak in December. The 20th anniversary of the contemporary art fair, Art Miami (www.art-miami.com), takes place December 2–6. More than 80 galleries and art venues in the city participate and proceeds go to benefit the Lotus House Women’s Shelter. The SCOPE Art Show (www.scope-art.com) shares those same dates with more vibrant contemporary art, and Photo Miami (http://artfairsinc.com) gets a one-day jump, running December 1–6. Design Miami (www.designmiami.com), focusing on designers and collectors, also starts at the top of the month, December 1–5. It is all part of the arts storm that takes over the city, known as Art Basel Miami Beach (www.artbasel.com), the most important annual art celebration in the United States. The event, sister to Art Basel in Switzerland, happens December 3–6 this year, and is an ever-groundbreaking gathering of international artists and collectors that transforms the Art Deco District into the cosmopolitan beating heart of the art world. Every day in the month of December, except Christmas Eve, you can join the Miami Design Preservation League (www.mdpl.org) for a walking tour of the Art Deco, Mediterranean Revival, and Miami Modern (MiMo) styles of architecture in the historic district—choose afternoon or evening tours, and maybe get in a little caroling along the way. Overlapping with Hanukkah festivities (December 12-19) is the Israel Film Festival (http://la.israelfilmfestival.com/the-festival), December 8–17. This is the largest showcase of films from and about Israel in the United States. December 19–20 you’ll want to catch the Miami Gay Men’s Chorus (www.miamigaychorus.org) holiday concert, “You Bet Your Brass.” More than 100 voices weave together yuletide cheer with an extra helping of attitude. As you would imagine, there are several productions in and around Miami of The Nutcracker, the grand dame being the annual favorite Miami City Ballet’s (www.miamicityballet.org) rendition, December 18–23. To cap off the year and lift your spirits into 2010, the Florida Dance Festival WinterFest (www.floridadanceassociation.org) takes over various Miami stages December 27–January 3. In addition to the international performance series there are also dance classes, workshops, and intensive multi-day courses to keep you moving (and get a jump on those New Year’s resolutions). Winter, spring, summer, or fall, find out what’s happening in and around Miami by visiting the gay web pages of Miami’s main tourism website, www.miamiandbeaches.com and also explore www.sobegayinfo.com and www.gogaymiami.com FORT LAUDERDALE It’s a short sleigh ride north to Fort Lauderdale where you’ll find tons of holiday shopping, relaxing gay guesthouses, and plenty of beach time. For holiday themes, Winterfest is a month-long celebration, the pinnacle of which is the Seminole Hard Rock Boat Parade (www.winterfestparade.com), December 12 on the Intracoastal Waterway. Boaters spend hundreds of hours decorating for the gala event. To get naughty and nice folks checked off your shopping list, fashionable Las Olas Boulevard welcomes you with winter décor and extended December shopping hours. Meanwhile, the more hand-hewn Woodstock Arts & Crafts Festival (www.woodstockartsfest.com) in Sunrise features handicrafts, international foods, Santa, and lots of entertainment on several stages December 5 and 6. December 17–20 you’ll enjoy the irreverent pre-Broadway run of World of Jewtopia (www.jewtopiaworld.com), a multi-media comedy/audience participation evening of performance. The creators hail the show as the Jewish Showtime at the Apollo where audience feedback drives the night of excerpts from “Moses’ undiscovered diaries,” “Major moment in Jewish history,” and more ribald antidotes to staid holiday traditions. A graceful Fort Lauderdale New Year’s celebration by the sea is celebrated with OceanDance 2009, December 30–31, when leading dance companies ring in the new year on a beach stage under the stars. As the calendar transitions from 2009 to 2010, fireworks light up the sky at this free and festive event. Gay Fort Lauderdale events and vacation planning help can be found at www.sunny.org/rainbow and www.gayftlauderdale.com KEY WEST In other cities they’re bundling up for the winter, but you can doff your duds completely at the Bone Island Bare it All Weekend (www.nakedkeywest.com) December 3–6. Hundreds of gay naturists fill up the island’s gay guesthouses and have a definite preference for the clothing-optional policies on sundecks throughout town. There are nude dance parties, foam parties, pool parties, naked shopping trips, and the “Bad Boys” party. You can hop on the naked shuttle to get from one event to the next. To ring in the New Year, celebrate with Sushi the drag queen as she descends from the balcony of the Bourbon Street Pub/New Orleans House (www.bourbonstpub.com) in a giant, red, high-heel shoe. For more hot tips about Key West, visit www.gaykeywestfl.com, the site of the Gay and Lesbian Community Center, www.glcckeywest.org, and the LGBT page of the Keys Tourism website, www.fla-keys.com/keywest/gaykeywest.cfm SOUTH FLORIDA HOLIDAY PACKAGES Canyon Ranch Miami Beach, 6801 Collins Ave, Miami Beach. Tel: 800-742-9000. Book your three-night stay at Miami’s Canyon Ranch by January 15 for the “Treat Yourself” seasonal bonus: $150 spa allowance for massage, facials, wraps, and more to ease the holiday stress. www.canyonranchmiamibeach.com Delano, 1685 Collins Ave, Miami Beach. Tel: 305-672-2000. Enjoy the warm December nights with the Cabana Evening Experience from $660. Overnight room, a pool cabana from 7 P.M. into the night, and one complimentary bottle of Champagne or Skyy Vodka with juice mixers. www.morganshotelgroup.com Mandarin Oriental Miami, 500 Brickell Key Drive, Miami. Tel: 500 Brickell Key Drive, Miami. Tel: 305-913-8288. The “Seasonal Choices” special, valid through December 31, starts at $269 and includes daily breakfast for two and late (6 P.M.) checkout so you can get in some extra shopping. www.mandarinoriental.com Mondrian Miami, 1100 West Ave, Miami Beach. Tel: 305-514-1500. Between now and December 28, book a room and get an upgrade to a suite for 30% off. www.morganshotelgroup.com Ritz-Carlton South Beach, One Lincoln Rd, Miami Beach. Tel: 786-276-4000. Enjoy a Christmas Day Champagne brunch with Christmas menu and free-flowing bubbly on December 25, $85 per guest. Traditional Christmas Dinner on the 25th is a three-course extravaganza indoors or out, $85 per guest. The Ritz-Carlton Spa has holiday-flavored specials through the winter, including Peppermint Mani/Pedi, Chocolate Lovers Massage, and Peppermint Body Scrub and massage. www.ritzcarlton.com/southbeach W South Beach, 2201 Collins Ave, Miami Beach. Tel: 305-938-3000. The Tease, Tempt, and Tantalize package runs through year’s end with intimate games, feather tickler, seduction sash, chocolates, Champagne, and late checkout—starting at $329. W Hotels continue their LGBT “Pride 365” Packages through February 2010 that include gay travel writing guidebook, Bliss skincare set, Flight 001 amenity kit, Passport Magazine subscription, and two cocktails—starting at $374. www.starwoodhotels.com FORT LAUDERDALE Grand Resort and Spa, 539 North Birch Rd, Ft. Lauderdale. Tel: 800-818-1211. Celebrate the season with two nights in a suite or penthouse, champagne or wine arrival, gourmet chocolates, two souvenir Grand Resort robes, choice of couples’ massage or couples’ facial, and dinner for two at select restaurants. Available through December 20 from $613–$723, two nights (additional nights available). www.grandresort.net Ritz-Carlton Fort Lauderdale, 1 North Fort Lauderdale Beach Blvd, Fort Lauderdale. Tel: 954-465-2300. The Spa at the Ritz goes all out for the holidays with seasonal offerings. Winter Wonderland Wellness Massage, Snow & Ice Reflexology, “Toast to 2010” Mimosa Champagne Body Wrap, Sugar Plum Facial, and more. Their Peace of Mind package runs through December 31, and provides three nights for the price of two, five for the price of three, or seven for the price of four, to extend your winter vacation. www.ritzcarlton.com W Fort Lauderdale, 401 North Fort Lauderdale Beach Blvd, Fort Lauderdale. Tel: 954-414-8200. The “Make a Wish and Pay Your Birth Year” special allows you to book your first night for $209 and get nights two and three for your birth year plus $100 (If you were born in 1970, the rate is $170). W Hotels continue their LGBT “Pride 365” Packages through February 2010 that include gay travel writing guidebook, Bliss skincare set, Flight 001 amenity kit, Passport Magazine subscription, and two cocktails—starting at $249. www.starwoodhotels.com KEY WEST Island House Key West, 1129 Fleming St, Key West. Tel: 800-890-6284. Buy a four-night stay this winter and get a three-night stay next summer for free. www.islandhousekeywest.com  

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CHICAGO The Windy City provides its own unique holiday cheer, and if you can brave the freezing temperatures, you’ll find a selection of winter events as diverse as the people.   The official kickoff to Chicago’s holiday season begins on November 21 with The Magnificent Mile Lights Festival (www.magnificentmilelightsfestival.com). Relive your childhood as you watch the parade make its way down Michigan Avenue. Bands, singers, and cartoon characters usher in the 2009 holiday season. No trip to Chicago is complete without shopping, and this lakefront city boasts some of the nation’s best. Stores in the city have extended hours during the shopping season. Avoid daytime crowds by shopping later. You’ll most likely find yourself along State Street and Michigan Avenue, but don’t get too caught up in the holiday fervor, be sure to take time to look at the gorgeous decorations. Every year Macy’s Annual Animated Christmas Windows (www.visitmacyschicago.com) raises the bar and attracts crowds of curious spectators. While in front of the department store, don’t miss the Great Tree at Macy’s on State St. A nighttime stroll down the Magnificent Mile makes for a romantic affair. Over one million lights flicker along the street, illuminating the 460 different retail stores. The focal point of the extravaganza is Daley Center Plaza where the Christkindlmarket (www.christkindlmarket.com) sets up shop. Open from Thanksgiving to Christmas Eve, this traditional German market has stalls filled with food and goods from Germany, Ukraine, and Austria. To add a little more culture and excitement to your holiday experience, the Museum of Science and Industry celebrates Christmas Around the World and Holiday of Lights (www.msichicago.org) with 50 trees decorated by Chicago’s different ethnic groups. The event takes place from mid November to early January. As you explore the museum, fake snow sifts down and musicians play classic holiday songs. Plan a quick trip to the Swedish American Museum Center (www.samac.org) for their annual Julmarknad Christmas Bazaar. Grab a cup of warm glögg (mulled wine) and explore traditional Swedish holiday crafts, displays, and food. Sit on Tomten’s (Swedish Santa) lap, and hope you’ve been a good boy or girl this year. If nature is calling, journey to the Lincoln Park Zoo (www.lpzoo.org) throughout December for the annual Zoo Lights, where acres of the park are transformed by thousands of holiday lights. This outdoor wonderland bursts with holiday spirit and is a welcome retreat from the busy city streets. Meanwhile, The Chicago Botanic Gardens (www.chicagobotanic.org) presents the Reindog Parade, where even our four-legged friends can get in on the holiday action. Tired of the traditional holiday performances? Chicago has an assortment of original shows to get you out of the cold. Show your best ballet moves at the annual Dance Along Nutcracker (www.open-chicago.org). The performers at the Chicago Cultural Center want you to have fun and be part of this holiday staple. So, put on your ballet slippers and get into the part. For a more serious and exhilarating portrayal, don’t miss The Nutcracker on Horseback (www.noblehorsechicago.com). See the stage production at the historic Noble Horse Theater. You can also bop your head along to the Hipmas Carol (www.headcheesefatboss.com). A reinterpretation of the classic Charles Dickens tale A Christmas Carol, this beat and jive-style performance has become a holiday cult classic. The performances throughout December echo the underground creative arts scene that Chicago has fostered. A Reasonable Facismile Theater Company (www.arftco.com) is known for their original and outrageously hilarious productions. This year’s holiday show is called ARFTCo’s Another Year Without a Witty Title Christmas Spectacular. Members of the ensemble cast were asked to bring in personal holiday photos, which are posted online. Playwrights from around the world use the photos as inspiration for their pieces. The show will present the works in a variety of different formats. The show will have two different versions, alternating Fridays and Saturdays throughout December. No holiday season in Chicago is complete without seeing a performance by the Chicago Gay Men’s Chorus (www.cgmc.org). This year, their show Christmas Follies, will mix big laughs with heart-melting melodies. Have fun with these men (and women) as they ring in the holiday season, December 11–12 at the Athenaeum Theatre. Hanukkah revelers can dance the night away on December 24, at the JuJu Ball Matzo Bash (www.chicagojewishevent.com). Light the candles to live bands and DJ sets, all while enjoying complimentary food and drink. Nick’s Beer Garden (www.jewishbucktown.com), in the Chicago neighborhood of Bucktown, hosts Bucktownukah on December 12, a celebration that includes free drinks, and “all the greasy food you can eat.” Watch the city explode in color at the New Year’s Eve Fireworks at Buckingham Fountain. If you’re in the mood to party, all gay bars are typically open for business. The most well-known New Year’s hot spot is at Hydrate (www.hydratechicago.com). Don’t just ring in the New Year once for central time, make a Champagne toast every hour, on the hour for cities across the globe. For the most up-to-date info on performances and activities, visit MetroMix Chicago (www.chicago.metromix.com). CHICAGO HOLIDAY PACKAGES InterContinental Chicago, 505 North Michigan Avenue, Tel: 312-944-4100. Magnificent Mile Holiday Package. Close to all high-end shops. Enjoy a $50 gift-card, shopping discounts, $15 Starbucks gift card, and complimentary valet parking and breakfast. Prices range from $199–$319. www.icchicagohotel.com The Talbott Hotel, 20 E. Delaware Place, Tel: 1-800-Talbott. The Shopping Package includes deluxe accommodations, $50 gift certificate, and continental breakfast for two. Rooms average $267. www.talbotthotel.com Fairmont Chicago Millennium Park Hotel, 200 North Columbus Drive, Tel: 1-866-540-4408. The Shopping at Macys on State Street Package includes overnight accommodation for two, a $50 Macy’s gift card, a Macy’s Visitors Savings Pass, and late check out of 5 P.M. Rates start at $289. www.fairmont.com/chicago NEW YORK Yes Virginia, there is a Santa Claus, and he and all of his magic can be found in New York City. One of the best places to celebrate the holiday season is in the Big Apple. Visitors from all across America and around the world come every year to experience the city’s transformation into a perennial holiday icon. There is a plethora of things to do and places to go, but make sure to consider some of our favorites when planning your holiday itinerary. The tree at Rockefeller Center is, by far, the most popular holiday attraction, which means crowds can be atrocious. Try paying a visit to some less-popular firs. The recently redone Washington Square Park is a nice alternative. Stroll around the park while musicians play the sounds of the holidays and look at the tree under the Washington Centennial Arch. Bryant Park and the South Street Seaport are also festively decorated during the month of December. Most of the trees are brought in from the tri-state area, but the Brooklyn Borough Hall Tree (www.nyc.gov) is the environmentally friendly alternative because the tree remains green throughout the year and gets decorated for the holidays. The 40-foot-tall tree’s lighting ceremony takes place during the second week of December, where an array of international artists pays tribute to the borough’s diverse population. The Metropolitan Museum of Art tree (www.metmuseum.org) attracts a hefty crowd, but is not to be missed. Decorated with 18th-century Neapolitan angels, cherubs, and a large nativity scene collection, the museum will make you feel the holiday spirit instantly. The Museum of Natural History (www.amnh.org) also has a unique tree. Decorated with gorgeous origami creations, it is a true masterpiece. Artists begin folding paper in July in order to allow enough time to make over 500 decorations to cover the 13-foot tree. If you’re tired of the hustle and bustle of the big city, spend the day in nature. Prospect Park in Brooklyn participates in the century-old Audubon Christmas Bird Count (www.prospectpark.org). The count helps conservation researchers track the long-term health of bird populations. If you’re not too cold from spreading environmental goodwill, stick around to see the holiday lights illuminate Prospect Park. The best light display is around Grand Army Plaza in Brooklyn. The Cloisters is a division of the Metropolitan Museum of Art, located in Northern Manhattan. The medieval architecture and collection make for a romantic trip. For the holidays The Cloisters celebrates Christmastide (www.metmuseum.org). Like in medieval times, the church is adorned with evergreens, herbs, and fruit. The arched doorways of the main hall are ornamented with ivy leaves, hazelnuts, rose hips, and apples. The grounds provide striking views overlooking the Hudson River and are an ideal respite. The holidays in New York are also about helping those in need. One of the largest annual charity events is the Toys for Tots (www.toysfortots.org) fundraiser. The event takes place in Chelsea and is known for attracting high profile gay men and women. The evening requires all guests to bring gifts for children or the elderly. Of course, it wouldn’t be the holiday season without attending the annual New York City’s Gay Men’s Chorus holiday celebration, now in their 30th year. See A Holiday Celebration of the Power of Love (www.nycgmc.org) at New York City’s Town Hall on December 20. The group has been plagued this year by financial problems so show them your support by ushering in a fabulous holiday season. Looking for something a little more outrageous than The Radio City Christmas Show? Grab tickets to see drag superstar Mimi Imfurst’s always sold out holiday spectacular, A Very Mary Christmas (www.virginmarylive.com) at the Laurie Beechman Theatre. The show is a live-action interpretation of the Virgin Mary’s path to giving birth to Jesus. Mimi’s Mary is a boozy lounge singer who parodies pop songs and takes the audience on a musical journey they won’t soon forget. The twisted holiday tale can be seen December 6 and 13. Crowds gather around the world’s largest menorah every night of Hanukkah. The menorah is a colossal 32-foot high, 4,000-pound, steel structure set up in Grand Army Plaza in Central Park. If more Festival of Lights action is in order, don’t miss the Sephardic Musical Festival (www.sephardicmusicfestival.com), which showcases the Sephardic culture through New-Age musical talents from across the US. The seven-day festival held during Hanukkah attracts a diverse audience to various venues around Brooklyn. If the holidays are just another excuse to party, don’t worry; New York City has got you covered. All the bad girls out there will be joyful at Shescape’s Christmas Snowball Bash (www.shescape.com) party on December 12 where the ladies can party with the city’s hottest girls and even sexy Santa pinups. Bring a toy and receive $5 off admission. Presents go to the Children’s Hope Foundation. There is no shortage of things to do on New Year’s Eve. Anyone with slight enochlophobia should avoid Times Square. Instead, go to your favorite bar, where there is sure to be a crowd. For a more peaceful evening, join the New York Philharmonic, as Alan Gilbert and Thomas Hampson ring in the New Year at Avery Fisher Hall (www.nyphil.org). For up-to-date information about the holidays in New York City, visit TimeOut New York (www.timeoutny.com). NEW YORK HOLIDAY PACKAGES The GEM Hotels, Chelsea: 300 W. 22nd Street. Tel: 212-675-1911; Midtown West: 449 W. 36th Street. Tel: 212-967-7206; SoHo: 135 E. Houston. Tel: 212-358-8844. Special holiday nightly rate of $139 per room for December 18–29. www.thegemhotel.com Wellington Hotel, 871 Seventh Ave. Tel: 212-201-2700. The Holiday Lights Special includes an in-room gift, free Internet, breakfast for two, and a discounted room rate. (rooms average $274). www.westinny.com The Westin New York at Times Square, 270 West 43rd Street. Tel: 212-201-2700. Enjoy an in-room holiday treasure chest and a box of decorations to give your room some holiday flair. Order holiday movies free. $199–429 www.westinny.com

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PHILADELPHIA Whether you want a more traditional holiday season with Christmas light displays and New Year’s Eve fireworks, or are looking for something a little different, like a drag show or raucous parades, Philadelphia has something for you this holiday season.   Philly is called the City of Brotherly Love for a good reason—there are many gay-friendly activities, even during the holidays. If music is your passion the Philadelphia Gay Men’s Chorus (www.pgmc.org) is a must-see. Since 1981 the group has been performing a wide array of tunes, from sacred music and love ballads to comedy pieces and LGBT empowerment songs. The chorus will perform A Vintage Holiday on December 4–5. Get season tickets for $100 and score VIP seating to three shows. For a relaxing evening, take a walk through Rittenhouse Square and view the city’s largest Christmas tree. Or, for an even more impressive sight, check out Longwood Gardens (www.longwoodgardens.org). During the holiday season the park’s trees and fountains are decorated with over 500,000 colorful lights. On some evenings there are outdoor skating performances and plays at the Open Air Theater. If you get cold, head inside to the park’s 4.5-acre heated conservatory and see poinsettias, begonias, tulips, and more. Longwood’s Exhibition Hall is also dazzling this time of year. The indoor space features a large tree, icicles made of lights, and many exotic plants. After all this activity you’re sure to be starving so check out the Yuletide Buffet. Some evenings are members-only and tickets are timed so plan accordingly! History buffs are encouraged to visit the National Constitution Center (www.constitutioncenter.org), the sight of the nation’s first historical marker to acknowledge GLBT history. From October 2 to December 31 this famous landmark will be hosting a nine-gallery exhibit called Diana: A Celebration, which will chronicle the life of Princess Diana. The Gershman Y (www.gershmany.org) offers a respite from those who have had their fill of Christmas. On December 13 the center will have its seventh annual Latkepalooza. This event, which draws over 400 people, features gourmet latkes provided by some of Philly’s best restaurants as well as arts, crafts, and music. Advanced tickets are $15 for adults and $18 at the door. On December 24 and December 25 The Gershman Y hosts the Moo Shu Jew Show. This event plays upon an important Jewish tradition: Chinese food on Christmas. Chow down on an eight-course Chinese Banquet while you watch a stand up comedy show. Tickets are $45–$62 in advance and the event sold out last year so get yours early. On New Year’s Eve, Philadelphia has a fabulous fireworks display over the Delaware River. You can even watch it on ice at the Blue Cross RiverRink (www.riverrink.com), an Olympic-sized rink with a warming pavilion, concessions, and a video game room. The 109th Philly Mummers Parade (www.phillymummers.com) is one of the most anticipated holiday events in Philly. Starting at 10 A.M. on New Year’s Day, spectators line Broad Street to see comedy, floats, string bands, wild costumes, choreographed dances, and more. The parade is divided into different divisions and has about 10,000 participants. Members of the Fancy Division, a parade highlight, have unique outfits, some of which are so large the person wearing them has to be pushed or pulled by others. One of Philadelphia’s slogans boasts that you can “get your history straight and your nightlife gay,” and it’s true. Head to the city’s aptly named “Gayborhood” for a fun-filled night of LGBT partying. The area is bordered by Pine, Walnut, 11th and Juniper Streets in Center City, just four blocks away from City Hall. www.phillypride.org Or, if partying isn’t your thing, check out the Gayborhood by day and browse trendy, fun stores. With no tax on clothing, the City of Brotherly Love is the perfect place to do all your holiday shopping and, while you’re at it, get a few things for yourself. For great gifts, check out the gay and lesbian bookstore, Giovanni’s Room (www.giovannisroom.com), or home and garden shop, Phag (www.thephagshop.com). With so much to do, Philadelphia is perfect for travelers who want a little bit of everything this holiday season. For up-to-date event listings check out Philadelphia Gay News at www.epgn.com or www.gophila.com PHILADELPHIA HOLIDAY PACKAGES The Philadelphia Freedom Hotel Package includes overnight accommodations for two at one of three gay-friendly hotels. Visitors also receive a complimentary continental breakfast and a Gay-friendly Philadelphia Welcome packet. Additional perks may be included. Prices vary. www.gophila.com The Alexander Inn, 301 S12th Street. Tel: 215-923-3535, is a 48-room boutique hotel located right in the city’s “Gayborhood.” Deluxe rooms start at $129 to $169. Guests receive a complimentary breakfast buffet and have access to the day-long snack bar. www.alexanderinn.com The Courtyard Philadelphia Downtown, 21 N Juniper Street. Tel: 215-496-3200, has an “Out in Philadelphia” package. Valid through December 30, this deal offers visitors deluxe rooms from $179 to $209, a complimentary breakfast for two, and a Gay-friendly Philadelphia Welcome packet. The hotel is one block away from the city’s “Gayborhood.” www.marriott.com The Gables Bed and Breakfast, 4520 Chester Avenue. Tel: 215-662-1918, is an elegant Victorian mansion located about 15 minutes away from downtown Philadelphia. Rooms range from $115 to $185 and include parking, Internet access, and a full breakfast, featuring homemade muffins, fresh fruit, and a sumptuous main course. www.gablesbb.com Loews Philadelphia Hotel, 1200 Market Street. Tel: 215-627-1000, is promoting the “Philly Overnight Package,” through December 31. Rates start at $169 and include overnight accommodations for two, free parking, and a welcome gift. Visitors can also relax and indulge at the hotel’s pool, salon, or spa. www.loewshotels.com

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BOSTON With its snow-covered pines, light-filled shop windows, and merry carolers, Boston is the perfect place to go for a quintessential holiday experience.   In the brisk winter air, head to Boston Commons, the country’s oldest public park, for ice-skating. The Frog Pond Skating Rink (www.bostoncommonfrogpond.org) is open every day. Admission is $4 for adults and skate rental is $8. There is a snack bar serving hot and cold goodies, as well as numerous restaurants nearby. While you’re in Boston Commons, make sure to check out the annual holiday tree lighting, which typically starts the first week of December. The multitude of bulbs twinkles every night until the New Year (www.cityofboston.gov). If Jack Frost nips too eagerly at your nose, head inside to one of the city’s many performance halls. Until December 27, visitors can watch the Boston Ballet perform The Nutcracker at the Boston Opera House (www.bostonballet.org). The theater is slashing prices for the holidays with the Magical Date Night package. Buy one ticket and get the second 50 percent off. The Boston Symphony Orchestra (www.bso.org) will be celebrating with Holiday Pops from December 9–27. Or, for a less traditional performance, the Boston Gay Men’s Chorus (www.bgmc.org) will perform Our Home For the Holidays. The performance includes traditional songs as well as a story about Mrs. Claus and the elves who, left alone on Christmas Eve, drink too much and decide to take a trip to Rio. See it on December 13, 18, 19 and 20 at the New England Conservatory’s Jordan Hall. Beginning on December 13, the Huntington Theatre Company (www.huntingtontheatre.org) will perform A Civil War Christmas at the Boston University Theatre. The play, by Paula Vogel, takes place in 1864 and tells the intertwining stories of President Lincoln and his wife, a rebel soldier, and an escaped slave. Tired of warm and fuzzy holiday tales? Book a seat early for the usually sold out play, The Santaland Diaries at the New Repertory Theatre (www.newrep.org). Based on essays by David Sedaris and adapted by Joe Mantello, the one-man show follows a Macy’s Elf, Crumpet, through his holiday retail adventures. Don’t miss the merry misery December 16–January 3. The night before Christmas, Newbury Street comes alive as last-minute shoppers run from store to store and carolers sing festive songs. If you get hungry, don’t worry; the street is filled with vendors offering free food and hot cider (www.townme.com). The Menorah Lighting (www.chabadboston.org) in the Boston Commons brings the Jewish community together for a night of celebration. The first night, December 11, features live music, prayer, and a visit from the mayor. For a less traditional Hanukkah, the Society of Young Jewish Professionals holds the Matzo Ball (www.matzoball.org). On December 24, 21–49-year-olds of every stripe celebrate the holiday at this upscale club evening. Welcome the New Year at First Night Boston (www.firstnight.org) with colossal ice sculptures, concerts, and a Mardi Gras-style Metro Grand Procession. Visitors can also enjoy dance, vocal, and theater performances, and two explosive fireworks displays. A button is required to take part in the festivities and costs $18. Profits help fund the First Night Neighborhood Network, a year-long arts initiative and outreach program. For those who crave a healthy dose of the arts in an intimate and traditional setting, Boston could not be better. So grab your warm clothes and head to this New England city for carols, lights, and food in a festive atmosphere. For additioonal holiday celebrations visit www.boston.com or www.searchboston.com BOSTON HOLIDAY PACKAGES Boston Park Plaza, 50 Park Plaza. Tel: 617-426-2000. The First Night Grand Procession Button Package includes an overnight stay on New Year’s eve, two First Night buttons, and two seats on the First Night Grand Procession trolley. Rates begin at $199. www.bostonparkplaza.com Liberty Hotel, 215 Charles Street. Tel: 617-224-4000. The Winter Wonderland Package includes two VIP passes to the Boston Commons Frog Pond Ice Skating Rink, two hot chocolates, complimentary in-room movie, and breakfast. The Holiday Beacon Hill Boutique Package includes two hot toddies, complimentary gift-wrapping, and a shopping pass with discounts at Beacon Hill Shops. Rooms average $300 during holidays. www.libertyhotel.com Omni Parker House, 60 School Street. Tel: 617-227-8600. Offers numerous deals including a First Night Buttons with Breakfast Package, which includes overnight accommodations, two First Night buttons, and a full breakfast for two in Parker’s Restaurant. Rooms from $279. www.omnihotels.com Seaport Hotel and Seaport World Trade Center Boston, 1 Seaport Lane. Tel: 800-440-3318. A special holiday rate for visitors who stay from December 18–30. Rooms start at $149 and include deluxe accommodations and free wireless Internet. www.seaportboston.com

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37 Complaints Filed Against Police Officer For Harassing Gays in Chicago's Boystown Area

The number of lawsuits facing a Chicago police officer accused of trumping up bogus charges against gay and lesbian drivers has nearly doubled. New dashcam video from Officer Richard Fiorito's squad car released Thursday shows him following a car in the early morning hours of June 13. The video appears to record an uneventful drive, but in his report Fiorito said the driver was swerving from lane to lane and narrowly missing parked cars. It is more evidence, activists say, of an ongoing scheme by Fiorito of making up DUI charges and then earning overtime pay when he appeared to testify on those charges in court. "We are demanding that (Cook County State's Attorney) Anita Alvarez file criminal charges against Officer Fiorito," said Andy Thayer, co-founder of the Gay Liberation Network. Thayer and attorney Jon Erickson said 16 more people will be joining a civil lawsuit that began with 21 drivers last month. One of the plaintiffs in the new suit says he and some friends were stopped in the heart of Boystown on a suspected DUI. He said he was released after passing his field sobriety tests, but moments later and two blocks away was pulled over again by Fiorito.

"I thought that it was just a bad situation. The fact that I was just let go, and if I was intoxicated, and I couildn't drive, why was I instructed to leave and go home?" said Lex Leaks.

Fiorito, already on desk duty because of an investigation Cook County State's Attorney's Office and the Independent Police Review Authority, denies the charges. While the investigation is underway, the department will not use any of his testimony in any drunk driving cases. Activists said they plan to take their demands to the Chicago Police Board when it meets next Thursday at police headquarters.

"I think that there's still a great deal of concern amongst those who have been arrested by officer Fiorito and victimized by his criminal enterprise, that he be charged with for the crimes he's committed," Erickson said.

Fiorito has been honored by Mothers Against Drunk Driving for the 313 DUI arrests he made between Jan. 1, 2007 and June 6, 2008. He said that if he's called to testify in these cases, he will assert his 5th Amendment rights. Fiorito is the third Chicago cop accused of trumping up DUI charges. Last year, prosecutors dropped more than 50 cases after accusing Chicago officer John Haleas of perjury. Earlier this year, dozens of DUI arrests by officer Joe Parker came under scrutiny.

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Beaten & Robbed In Boystown

A man was beaten and robbed of his cell phone in an attack on Halsted Street near Buckingham Place in the Boystown neighborhood. Police are searching for the suspects who robbed and beat a man as he walked early Monday in the Boystown neighborhood. The 24-year-old man was walking at 3341 N. Halsted St., near Buckingham Place, around 4:50 a.m. Monday when four men attacked him, police said.

"They began punching him about the face and body and they took his cell phone,'' police News Affairs Officer Robert Perez said. The assailants didn't take any money, he said.

The man was able to get away and went home. He suffered swelling and declined to go to a hospital, according to the officer.  One of the attackers was wearing black clothing, and clothing on the other three was not known, according to Perez. All the attackers were between the ages of 20 and 30, Perez said. Since Thursday, there have been at least five similar attacks in the Lincoln Park neighborhood about a mile and a half south. In those incidents, a group of at least four attackers sneaked up on the victims from behind and beat them savagely as they robbed them. Those attacks happened Thursday in the 600 block of West Fullerton Parkway and the 2100 block of North Stockton Drive; Saturday in the 2000 block of North Cleveland Avenue and the 300 block of West Webster Avenue; and Tuesday at Fullerton and Cannon drives. All of the victims were young men walking alone. The address where the attack occurred is outside Minibar, one of many gay bars and nightclubs that line the Boystown strip on Halsted Street. It is not known whether police are investigating if sexual orientation could have played any role in the motive for the attack.

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IML Bans Bareback Content

International Mr. Leather, President Chuck Renslow has declared a ban on bareback vendors, videos and other bareback paraphernalia during next year's 2010 event. The letter reads as follows:

Dear Vendors: On behalf of International Mr. Leather, Inc., I would like to thank you for your past support and in particular for your participation as a vendor in our annual Leather Market. We are writing you today to inform you of a policy change affecting next year (2010) and all future markets. Though we are now three decades into the HIV/AIDS epidemic, no cure has been found. The CDC and local health officials inform us that new infections are on the rise. And, while we have had some success developing medications that might make infection more manageable, that accomplishment comes at a price. Not having experienced the deaths - the loss of loved ones -- which preceded these medications, we have an entire generation who may not fully appreciate or comprehend the severity of the situation. Too many in our community believe HIV/AIDS is curable or manageable. Too few understand that HIV/AIDS infections dominate life. We believe that it is our duty to inform and educate. Several years ago when “Meth” was the scourge of our community, IML drew a line in the sand and raised awareness and used all our influence to try and stop this addictive madness. As is the case with HIV/AIDS, we believe it is our further obligation to do everything in our power to prevent future infections. To that end, after considerable discussion, the Executive Committee of International Mr. Leather has decided that it will no longer allow participation in the IMLLeather Market by any entity which promotes barebacking or distributes/sells any merchandise tending to promote or advocate barebacking. This restriction will also apply to distribution of gifts, post cards or any other information via our facilities. This policy takes effect immediately. Sincerely, Chuck Renslow, President International Mr. Leather

I encourage you to go over to Will Clark and read his input on the matter. I think many of you will enjoy reading the post there. Feel free to leave your two-cents as to how you feel about the banning of bareback content at Industry events or otherwise.  

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Gay Pride around the World

Gay pride celebrated around the world

People took to the streets around the world on Sunday to participate in gay pride parades.

Several men take part in a gay pride parade in Barcelona, Spain.

Long strings of colorful balloons float above the street past St. Patrick's Cathedral during New York's annual Gay Pride Parade. Marchers marked the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall uprisings, a raid on the gay-friendly Stonewall Inn that was the starting point for riots that lasted several days in Manhattan's Greenwich Village.

A participant looks on during a gay pride parade in New Delhi, India.

Stephan Hengst, left, Patrick Decker, center, and City of Amsterdam Deputy Mayor Carolien Gehrels pose for a photo in front of a traditional Dutch Delft Blue porcelain wedding cake during New York's annual Gay Pride Parade in New York. Hengst and Decker are one of the chosen 5 Trans-continental couples to get married in August's Amsterdam Pride.

People participate in a gay pride parade in New Delhi, India. Hundreds of gay rights supporters waived flags and danced past traffic during marches through three Indian cities Sunday to celebrate gay pride.

Representatives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community gesture as they participate in Pride March rally in Bangalore, India.

A participant is all dressed up for the gay pride parade in Barcelona, Spain.

A drag queen dressed as Liza Minnelli waves to spectators during New York's annual Gay Pride Parade.

A participant in the gay pride parade in Barcelona, Spain, on Sunday, June 28.

Participants kiss during the annual Gay Pride Parade in Istanbul, Turkey. Several hundreds of gays, lesbians and transsexuals participated in the parade, condemning homophobia and violence against them and demanding equal rights.

A man dressed with elements of Michael Jackson's costumes marches in the Gay Pride Parade in New York.

Thousands lined the street or stood on balconies of buildings lining Halsted Street to watch Chicago's 40th annual Gay Pride Parade on Sunday

Thousands line Halsted near Belmont for Chicago's 40th Annual Pride Parade.

Parade participants of all shapes and sizes walk in the Seattle Pride Parade.

Mock cops make their way to the Pride Parade on Sunday in San Francisco.

The Pride Parade makes its way up Market Street on Sunday in San Francisco on Sunday, June 28, 2009

A Toronto fireman hose down spectators during Pride parade along Yonge Street in Toronto, Ont., June 28, 2009.

A group of spectators watch the Pride parade from an open second story window along Yonge Street in Toronto, Ont., June 28, 2009.

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Bride Ban

Bar owner Geno Zaharakis sat one busy evening at the window of his gay nightclub, watching as groups of straight women celebrating bachelorette parties made their way along a strip of bars in Chicago’s gay-friendly “Boystown” neighborhood. That’s when he made a decision now posted for all to see: “No Bachelorette Parties.” Though the small sign has been there for years, it’s suddenly making a big statement amid the national debate over gay marriage. While most gay bars continue to welcome the raucous brides to be, Zaharakis’s bar Cocktail is fighting for what he sees as a fundamental right, and his patrons – along with some peeved bachelorettes – are taking notice.

“I’m totally losing money because of it, but I don’t want the money,” Zaharakis said. “I would rather not have the money than host an event I didn’t believe in.”

Gay bars are popular with bachelorettes, both for the over-the-top drag shows that some offer and for the ability to let loose in a place where women are unlikely to be groped or ogled. Some bars welcome the women and their free spending, even advertising weekend shows. Zaharakis, though, instructs his bouncers to turn away groups of women sporting beads, boas, tiaras and phallic plastic necklaces. His customers say they like knowing they’re not going to encounter such displays.

“It is throwing it in our face that they can get married and we can’t,” said Dion Contreras, a 29-year-old Chicago litigation manager, while having a drink at Cocktail with friends. “I just think they’re ignorant to our situation. I want women to think twice about this issue.”

When Zaharakis posted the sign in 2004, it got a little local attention, but it was mostly the surprised bachelorettes turned away at the door who took note. The November passage of California’s gay marriage ban Proposition 8, though, helped sparked chatter about the ban on Internet blogs, which in turn attracted more media attention and debate. The California Supreme Court upheld the state ban last month. Six states have legalized gay marriage. Some of the biggest proponents of gay marriage aren’t on board with Zaharakis’ approach. Evan Wolfson, executive director of Freedom to Marry, said while he agrees with Zaharakis’ stand on marriage equality, he would express it differently.

“I’d rather invite people in,” Wolfson said. “Celebrate their happiness and ask them to take a stand for us by helping change the law.”

And Ed Yohnka of the American Civil Liberties Union of Illinois – well-known for fighting for the legalization of gay marriage – says the ban may violate state anti-discrimination laws.

“The way is not to bar or discriminate against or harass other people,” Yohnka said.

In Washington D.C., when bachelorette partygoers enter the gay bar Town Danceboutique they’re asked to sign a petition in support of gay marriage. Owner Ed Bailey sends the petitions to the customer’s representative in Congress. Bailey says in the year he’s had his petition policy, no one has refused to sign.

“That’s the way to handle it instead of alienating all these people,” Bailey said. “You have to get the consensus built out there. Why not try to convince people, ‘Hey, why wouldn’t you support this?”’

Down the street from Chicago’s Cocktail, another gay nightclub, Circuit, welcomes bachelorettes. Owner Jeff Binninger doesn’t think the women’s antics are meant to hurt anyone.

“The girls want to come and see the dancers,” Binninger said. “I don’t think it’s on their mind at all, ‘We can get married and, oh, you can’t.’ I don’t think the girls are malicious in their intent.”

Where Zaharakis took offense, Binninger saw a market niche and started producing the male revue “Sinzation” on Saturday nights, advertised specifically to bachelorette parties. One recent Saturday night, 25-year-old Tiffany Casto of Canton, Mich., and eight girlfriends waited for the male dancers to start the show. Casto wore a hot pink feather boa, while her friends had matching white sunglasses, reflecting the dozen disco balls spinning from the ceiling as Beyonce’s “Single Ladies” played.

“I wouldn’t think I’m flaunting it at all,” Casto said.

But Zaharakis is standing firm. At Cocktail, where about once a month staff turn away bachelorettes, the sign will stay. And for those who ask about it, he’s ready with a written statement: “Until same-sex marriage is legal everywhere and same-sex couples are allowed the rights as every heterosexual couple worldwide, we simply do not think it’s fair or just for a female bride-to-be to celebrate her upcoming nuptials here at Cocktail.”

“I’m not going to tell anybody about how to run their business,” Zaharakis said. “This is just how I run mine. The political climate has made it more charged. We’re standing up in our factions and groups and making statements about how this should stop.”

Further Study: The top photo is of the popular Boystown go-go boy Blake. Cocktail Bar Chicago Circuit Night Club Town Danceboutique

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Do not know they have HIV!

A first-of-its-kind study looking at HIV infection rates found that half of gay men in Chicago who have HIV did not know they were infected, and two-thirds of infected black men were unaware. In addition, infection rates for black men were more than twice the rates for whites and Hispanics. The results of the Chicago Department of Public Health survey are sobering, officials say, but not unexpected. "It's a terrible thing, but it is not surprising," says Jim Pickett, director of advocacy for the AIDS Foundation of Chicago. The statistics prove what some organizations, including the city, have been seeing for several years: That gay black men are among the fastest growing groups to test HIV-positive. The Chicago study found that more than 17 percent of gay men in Chicago have HIV; 39 percent did not get tested in the last year because they were worried about the result. Almost 600 gay men from across the city were tested for HIV/AIDS and interviewed about their lifestyles, including questions about drug use and number of partners. Ninety-one of the subjects tested positive for the virus. Thirty percent of gay black men in Chicago tested positive, the study showed, while Hispanics and white men had rates of 12 percent and 11.3 percent, respectively. A quarter of blacks aged 18-24 tested positive. More than 37 percent of blacks aged 25-34 - the highest of any age group - tested positive. The numbers are similar to national figures.

"What we think we're seeing here is the shifting sands of two epidemics," says Nik Prachand, an epidemiologist with the city of Chicago's STI/HIV/AIDS division. "What we're seeing right now is a new surge in (HIV cases) with black (gay men)."

Prachand says anecdotal data has backed up the information the city collected between August and December last year. He said it is important to understand that the prevalence of HIV in black men can be tied to the elevated rates in the black community.

"It's not that black (gay men) are exhibiting higher risk behaviors in either sex or drug use," he says, pointing to data showing them to engage in less risky behavior than whites or Hispanics. "It's sort of a network effect. When your overall community prevalence is higher, you're going to see elevated rates within subgroups."

Pickett says the study points to a need for an overhaul of how gay men approach health.

"When you focus on one specific thing, it doesn't reflect all the issues," including mental and physical health, depression and substance abuse, he says. More than 40 percent of those surveyed admitted illicit drug use, and whites were more likely to do drugs than any segment.

"We need to incorporate HIV into a broader or more holistic framework (covering) gay men's health needs from top to toe," Pickett says.

That's the city's take, too, says Prachand.

"I think it's important that our prevention points towards healing the whole community. It's an issue of being more holistic about HIV," he says.

But, with HIV's high profile in the community, Pickett and others say more testing is needed. Currently, the CDC recommends that gay men be tested once a year. Ariq Cabbler, co-chair of the Chicago Black Gay Men's Caucus, says two tests a year should be the norm; Pickett recommends three. Cabbler is worried that a new breed of promiscuous young men are not listening to the traditional HIV/AIDS messaging. The study's statistics show that men who tested negative in earlier tests are now testing positive, an indication, Cabbler says, that they are engaging in risky activity during a 90-day period of time when HIV essentially incubates in the body.

"We need to know who makes up these social networks," which include men who meet other men over the Internet or through phone networks, he says. "You're kind of playing Russian roulette."

As part of its response to the report, the health department is proposing expanded testing and condom distribution, more community-level interventions, and outreach programs, including through the Chicago Black Gay Men's Caucus. Pickett said the city has done a good job in making gay men's health a priority.

"I am happy to say that Chicago is a leader in this country in working with the community and working with gay men. I can only imagine what the numbers could be if CDPH hadn't been doing good work."

He said the AIDS Foundation and other groups are stepping up awareness efforts this month. June is Gay Pride Month.

"The moral of the story is we want to catch people early in their infection," Pickett says. "We don't want people to test positive; we want them to test negative. And we want to provide them with the right kind of counseling and the right tools to maintain that negative."

The city is formally releasing the study's results June 9 at a 1 p.m. meeting at the DePaul Center. Health officials will lead a community discussion to see how the city's response can be improved. Story From Alex Parker ChiTownDailyNews