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Find Out What & Where 17,110 Gay Men Are At & What's Happening Online

If I were to use any word to describe my Facebook friends, coy wouldn't be one of them. Most openly express their gayness even among randomly intertwined lists of virtual strangers and other mutual gay male fans and friends. And, I'm not naming names here, but I've witnessed of a few dates or at the very least connections made on the comment threads and private inboxes of  gays on Facebook. So, why not an easy why to find other gay men on Facebook ? Those looking to connect in a separate gay space can add their existing Facebook pals that are Fabulis users and scan through events that "gay men in particular should enjoy attending." Users can also vote for other members (Hot or Not anyone?) and use virtual currency called Fabulis Bits. Founded in 2010, fabulis.com is the network that helps gay men and their friends discover where to go, what to do, and who to meet. fabulis is headquarted in New York, NY and has development operations in Pune, India, and Deinze, Belgium.
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Facebook Group Offers Free Guns to Kill Gays

hate_crimeWhat happens when society fails to take cognizance of the ultimate ramifications of inequality? What happens when individual communities ignore discrimination? What happens when people are denied basic civil rights? It cannot be good, because you know what happens – it inevitably leads to the next step – and then the next step and the next and then a final solution – ‘a license to Kill.’

Marginalized communities are easy targets for scape-goating, becoming targets for those who recriminate by virtue of this perceived license. So has the final solution begun and is the Uganda ground zero? If we remain silent we are participants. We have learnt that lesson. Learning a lesson, however, is not enough – especially when the license has been activated and society has crossed into a danger zone leading to the level-of-non-return.

Until the LGBTQ citizens of this Universe receive generic acceptance as civil and human rights entitled, this license remains an active permission slip to head further down the slippery slope of this dangerous disregard to the pit below.

So to prove the point, there is a group on Facebook offering free guns to those who join and want to exterminate gays. A counter group has emerged to take the exterminators down. Here is their post. I suggest joining to help remove the hate and harm – however once you have done so, please understand that is not enough – it is time to vote pro-equality and to urge your representatives to take leadership roles, to move equality legislation forward. How can we stand before the world and reprimand Uganda when we are all headed down the same slope.

Ban the “GAY EXTERMINATORS” from Facebook Description: On Saturday. Dec. 5, I was made aware of a group on Facebook called GAY EXTERMINATORS. When I went to their page to check it out, I was incensed. I quote: “we are a newly formed group that is specialized to kill and torture gays… we save mankind by killing gays and erase them from existence.. join us and get a free gun to kill gays today!” I was one of many who posted and cross-posted their link, asking all of my friends to become involved by going to their link and reporting them to Facebook. Their page went far beyond the rhetoric of most of the anti-LGBT sites on the internet. The GAY EXTERMINATORS were operating on a level of hatred unparalleled this side of Uganda. This direct call for the murder of gays was, in and of itself, a criminal act, and early Sunday morning we were successful in getting Facebook to take down their group page. Unfortunately, their event page entitled GAY JUDGEMENT DAY, which featured a cartoon of a man mutilating another man’s genitals with a chainsaw, was left up. After numerous protests, Facebook removed the event page on Monday, Dec. 7. While I appreciate Facebook’s rapid response to our protests, I do not feel that their response is adequate. The individual pages of the creator, the administrators and the officers of this group are still up and running. I am of the belief that they should be taken down as well. I quote from Facebook’s own policy on groups operating on their site: “Groups that attack a specific person or group of people (e.g. racist, sexist, or other hate groups) will not be tolerated. Creating such a group will result in the immediate termination of your Facebook account.” I read this to mean that not only will any group that operates in this manner have their page removed, but that any person who creates or operates such a group will have their Facebook account terminated. Make no mistake about one thing: This group was NOT simply exercising free speech! By calling on their supporters to murder gays, they were using Facebook to commit a crime and, as such, exposed Facebook to legal liability. Facebook has an obligation, not only to us, its users, but to itself, to terminate the accounts of these individuals and to bar their IP addresses from ever using Facebook in this manner again. If you agree with this position, please join this group, so that together we may prevent this sort of hate group from ever being created again. In a few weeks, hopefully we will have enough members to be able to convince Facebook to terminate the administrators’ accounts.(read more) STORY BY: Melaine Nathan LegalTreal
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Dear Abby: Man Comes Out of the Closet and Surprises Old Friends

dearabbyDear Abby: I spent my high school years chasing girls and participating in sports. I made good grades and was popular with peers and faculty. I have since graduated and entered college. I have also come out of the closet as gay. Due to popular sites such as Facebook, I have reunited with old friends who are interested to hear about my "new life." With those not "in the know," I feel uncomfortable having to come out of the closet again and again. I don't feel ashamed about myself or my boyfriend, but I feel a certain discomfort when my former and present lives meet. I have many friends, old and new, gay and straight, who I care about. But I feel some anxiety over the reactions I get from some of those people, even though they no longer hold a prominent place in my life. I'd greatly appreciate it if you could tell me how to handle and deal with such situations. Betwixt And Between In San Antonio Dear Betwixt: I understand your anxiety, but the reaction you're getting from some of your old friends is a direct result of how effectively you hid your homosexuality behind chasing girls and the misperception that being a talented athlete has anything to do with a person's sexual orientation. You need to accept the fact that people will be surprised because they assumed you were straight like they are. Some of them will be accepting; others won't. But the people who count will get beyond it. The way to handle this is with the same humor and compassion you would like from others. It may take some practice and coming to terms with your own feelings, but I have every confidence that you'll do it as thousands of other people have. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Write Dear Abby at http://www.dearabby.com/ or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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Online Love Sting

castrosonOne of Fidel Castro's sons carried on an eight-month flirtation over the Internet with a person he believed was a Colombian woman. Surprise! The woman was actually a Miami man. The trickster said the prank, broadcast on a Miami TV station, showed it's possible to get around Cuba's security.
"Guess where I am and I will make love to you without stopping," Antonio Castro Soto del Valle, Fidel's son and physician for the Cuban national baseball team, reportedly wrote "Claudia" during a January trip to Russia with his uncle Raúl.
But "Claudia" turned out to be Luis Domínguez, a Cuban-born Miamian who unveiled the sting on Americateve TV Channel 41 in Miami, saying it was designed to "shatter the myth of an impenetrable" security system. "Claudia's" cyber-boyfriend never revealed any state secrets and made no mention of Fidel during their more than 20 Internet chats. But he sent her what he said were his phone number and home address in Havana, wrote that he had no bodyguards and gave advance notice of a trip to Mexico — all breaches of the tight secrecy that has always surrounded Fidel Castro's family life. And when rumors swept Miami in mid January that Fidel Castro had died, Domínguez said that he assured Americateve that the rumors were likely false because Antonio was keeping up his regular chats with his cyber-girlfriend. The man who used the Canada-based e-mail address "tonycsport@yahoo.ca" also provided "Claudia" with details of a life far richer than the grind of the average Cuban — weekends in Varadero beach, Lacoste shirts and belt buckles, a personal Apple computer and a BlackBerry with Internet access, Domínguez's files showed. icon_offsite Read full story from http://www.tampabay.com/news/world/article1010002.ece
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Are You An Online Addict ?

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Therapists say they're seeing more and more people who've crossed the line from social networking online to social dysfunction. The websites themselves are not the problem it's the disconnection from real life that presents the real problem. No statistics on "social netwoking addiction" are available yet and for that matter an actual medical diagnosis of such a dysfunction hasn't made its way into the "books" YET. Some of the most popular social networking websites on the Internet are Facebook.com, MySpace.com, Gay.com and our very own website, BoyShout.com. In many ways you can even consider Just One Hot Minute a form of social networking.  So how do you know when your social networking use has turned into a compulsion? You can take Dr. Pile's Facebook Compulsion Inventory to find out.

You know you're a social networking addict when ... 1. You lose sleep over the network use 2. You spend more than an hour a day on a social network 3. You become obsessed with old loves 4. You ignore work in favor of social networking 5. The thought of getting off a social networking website leaves you in a cold sweat Sarah Browne, who writes the Guru of New blog, gave up Facebook for Lent last month when she realized that she had a "mild" addiction to the site. She's come up with Seven Signs You May Be Ready for a Social Media Detox. check them out by clicking here.
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2,100 Sex Offenders Banned

sex-offendersMore than 2,100 registered North Carolina sex offenders were found on the social networking site MySpace, the state attorney general's office said Tuesday. North Carolina bans sex offenders within the state from social networking sites where children are members. In response to a subpoena from state Attorney General Roy Cooper, "MySpace turned over the names, IP and e-mail addresses of 2,116 convicted North Carolina sex offenders found on its social networking Web site," Cooper's office said in a written statement. Cooper has requested similar information from Facebook, another popular social networking site, the statement said. MySpace has told North Carolina authorities that the sex offenders it identified have been removed from the site. North Carolina's State Bureau of Investigation is sharing the sex offenders' information with all 100 sheriffs in the state, Cooper's office said. "It's no secret that child predators are on these Web sites," Cooper said in the statement. "Turning over information about these predators to law enforcement helps, but MySpace, Facebook and other social networks need to do much more to protect kids online." North Carolina passed a law last year banning sex offenders within the state from social networking sites where children are members, making it a felony offense. indy20myspaceSex offenders on social networking sites is not a new issue. Last month, Newsweek magazine reported that Facebook said it had removed 5,585 convicted sex offenders from its site between May 2008 and January 2009. MySpace also announced it had removed 90,000 sex offenders in a two-year period, the magazine said. Last June, the Texas attorney general's office said it had arrested seven convicted sex offenders who violated their parole conditions by creating MySpace profiles, according to an article on the TechNewsWorld Web site. Cooper and Richard Blumenthal, Connecticut's attorney general, for more than three years have led a group of attorneys general in working to make social networking safer, Cooper's office said. The group is pushing social networks to use technology such as age and identity verification to better protect users who may be children. After discussions with the group, MySpace became the first social networking site to develop technology aimed at finding and removing sex offenders, the North Carolina statement said. Cooper is pushing Facebook to take similar steps. But, Cooper's office said, "the information provided by MySpace does not include sex offenders who have not been convicted, are not registered or may be using aliases on the site. Cooper remains concerned about other sex offenders on the site who may be lying about who they are, and is continuing to ask MySpace to do more to protect children on the site
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Facebook Gay ?

Does Facebook single out LGBT users?

by Matthew Leung
EDGE Boston
Tuesday Oct 28, 2008

Very soon after Facebook got its facelift, which it dubbed as the "new Facebook," I started seeing users amassing in Facebook groups of thousands to lobby the corporation to change things back to the way they looked. This collective effort occurred only a few days after Facebook switched to a new layout in early September.

I don’t like how things look either. What my inertia is against, however, is not anything cosmetic. Like other LGBT-identified user on Facebook, I have been flooded lately with advertisements showing guys in Speedos and guys making out. My allies, on the other hand, seldom see such ads.

It turns out that Facebook has started selling ad space to advertisers who want to focus exclusively on LGBT users. Facebook made this sly change earlier this year. It added the options "men interested in men" and "women interested in women" to its ad-targeting system, which was setup in Sept. 2007 to tailor ads to users based on their profile information. There is no option, however, for advertisers to target bisexual or transgender users.

Advertisers may target LGBT users as young as 13 with this new option, even if their profiles are set to "private." This option can be used in concert with other criteria including state, city, country, education, workplace, relationship status, and pre-selected keywords found in user profiles. Advertisers can take advantage of these targeting criteria to collect personally identifiable information of LGBT individuals. This puts them at risk for stalking and targeted attacks, and minors are especially vulnerable under these circumstances.

When you, the Facebook user, click on an ad, you are taken from Facebook to the Web site that advertiser can setup. At that point, you are at their mercy. An advertiser has your IP address and he or she can search to find out your approximate physical location (probably within a radius of a few miles) and your Internet service provider. An advertiser can also know your operation system and the browser you are using.

This means if your computer is not fully secured with the latest updates and a robust firewall, an advertiser can hack into your computer, look through your files, and even take over control of it.

Of course, this applies to mainly online ads. What Facebook has made possible, however, is for advertisers to use the orientation criteria to pick out a small number of individuals to hone in on. As LGBT users are the minority on Facebook, not many of a specific age exist in any given geographical area. For example, Facebook identifies roughly 80 gay and lesbian users between 18 and 22 in Poughkeepsie, New York. The number of straight male and female users in Poughkeepsie is 8,100. This number decreases significantly for underage teens. Less than 20 gays and lesbians between 13 and 17 are on Facebook in Poughkeepsie, compared to 1,660 straight males and female in the same age bracket.

Facebook defers to federal law, which states it is legal to target ads to teens 13 and older. The American Academy of Pediatrics, Children Now, the Center for Digital Democracy and other advocacy groups have lobbied the Federal Trade Commission since April to raise the age threshold to 18, but to no avail.

Current law does not govern whether it is acceptable to target minors based on their sexual orientation. This means that in theory, if only one 13-year-old fits an advertiser’s targeting criteria based on sexual orientation, then the advertiser could target ads to just that user.

Ads targeted to minors, however, face more restrictions than those targeted to adults. They cannot involve alcoholic beverages, matchmaking, adult themes, contraception, sex education and health conditions. Facebook also screens ads that will be displayed to minors prior to launching them.

Still, this measure’s effectiveness is doubtful. During a test, Facebook approved an advertisement targeted specifically to LGBT minors involving adult-themed keywords. An article in the Sydney Morning Herald in Sept. 2007 reported an ad that contained a picture of a topless female model also slipped onto Facebook. And even though Facebook does screen the Web site an ad leads to, the site could change to include offensive content later on.

The seemingly trivial addition of sexual orientation as an ad targeting criteria has, in reality, extensive consequences for LGBT users of all ages. It also breeches Facebook’s promise against allowing advertisers to target individual users. To me, this sly change from Facebook is actually far more drastic than any of its cosmetic changes, and far more worth the lobbying efforts of its users.

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