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Closet Case ?

Chace Crawford Still Denying He's Gay.

So yeah yeah, Chace Crawford's agents still have him convinced that his career will be in the toilet if he admits to liking guys. He can now only pose with footballs, only shag J.C. Chasez when there are no paparazzi around, and only go to the Chelsea Equinox on off hours and refrain from any steam room play.  But chuckle chuckle, he takes all the gay rumors in stride, insisting "you haven't made it unless there's been a gay rumour [sic] about you." The big revelation from this UK Metro interview? Chace reads. Like, actual books. If we are to take him at his word (which clearly we can't about the gay stuff), he's reading two books at once: marketing bible, The Tipping Point and David Lynch's Catching the Big Fish, which is a little arty book about transcendental meditation. Someone's feeling kinda sophisticated!
Anyway, we'd still do him, and we'd love to know if he considers himself a "connector" a "maven" or a "salesman."
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Jesse Helms Dies at 86 - Gay Rights Opponent

Jesse Helms, the former North Carolina senator with the courtly manner and mossy drawl who turned his hard-edged conservatism against civil rights, gay rights, foreign aid and modern art, died early Friday. He was 86.

                                   Senator Jesse Helms on Capitol Hill in 1982. More Photos »

Jesse Helms, 1921-2008

Mr. Helms’s former chief of staff, James W. C. Broughton, said the senator died at the Mayview Convalescent Center in Raleigh, N.C., where he had been living for the last several years. Mr. Helms had been in “a period of declining health” recently, Mr. Broughton said.
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24 Hour Help For Gay Youth

(CNN) -- The transgendered woman on the other end of the line was threatening to kill herself by jumping off of a parking structure. The Trevor Helpline counselor who answered the phone worked to get the 24-year-old calm and immediately called police for help.
The Trevor Project online provides resources for educators and a list of suicide warning signs.
The Trevor Project online provides resources for educators and a list of suicide warning signs.
Exactly one month later, that same woman called the helpline back -- to thank them for saving her life. Stories like these are the reason The Trevor Project operates its helpline, the only nationwide, around-the-clock crisis and suicide prevention number for gay and questioning youth. More than 500 volunteers are trained for 40 hours to run the bicoastal call centers. "There's a high level of stress that youth face in the transition from youth to adulthood," Charles Robbins, executive director of The Trevor Project, said. "Add on top of that the challenges of sexual orientation or gender identity and we get 15,000 calls a year." A 2005 Massachusetts Department of Education survey of 3,500 high school students, in partnership with the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, found almost 11 percent have seriously considered suicide. And that percentage is almost four times as high for 10 to 24-year-olds who identify themselves as gay, lesbian or bisexual. "Because of the unfortunate stigma that still exists in the United States around homosexuality ... youth tend to hold back their feelings, don't disclose, live in denial or shame," Robbins said. Every year The Trevor Project honors one individual who publicly works to reject that stigma and helps in the group's overall goal: to promote the acceptance of gay and questioning youth in society. This year's honoree, actor Alan Cumming, has been "unapologetic, and true to himself," Robbins said. "Anything that helps those people have a voice and have someone to talk to and have somewhere to turn is really important," Cumming said. "Suicide is in the top three causes of death for teens. That's a shocking statistic." Video Watch Cumming talk about The Trevor Project » The Trevor Project began in 1998, named after the short film "Trevor" that won an Academy Award in 1994. To encourage open discussions about suicide, personal identity and sexual orientation, the organization created The Trevor Survival Kit. The kit includes the DVD of "Trevor" and a classroom teaching guide. "All of these resources are helpful and necessary for gay and questioning youth because it's important for them to understand that they are not alone, that there is a safe place for them to find someone to listen, and most importantly, that their lives are valuable," Jacqueline Wing, communications manager for The Trevor Project, wrote in an email.

For more information on The Trevor Project, or to see a list of suicide warning signs, visit www.thetrevorproject.org. To contact the helpline, call 1-866-488-7386 or (866) 4.U.TREVOR.

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San Francisco & New York Pride

GC-PrideSFRoundupTH.jpgWe know. You're tired. Your head hurts and you have some existential malaise to beat the band. Half the people we know in SF make it an annual tradition to schedule the Monday after Pride as a vacation day from work, but here in the sweet sweet flesh and culture mines GorgeousBoys we are hard at work pulling together our shameful documentation from this past (all together now) Big! Gay! Pride! weekend in San Francisco, New York (where it was stormy!), Chicago, Paris and elsewhere. We're starting off with some pictures taken for The Sword by SF photographer and Flickr legend Darwin Bell of the festivities in our favorite Left Coast city, and we shall roll out the rest of what we've got in the next 24 hours--there is more coming for New York, even more from SF, and we've got some stuff from Paris and Chicago too.
CLICK THUMBNAILS TO ENLARGE. SOME ARE NSFW. San Francisco Pride Weekend '08 Including photos of Pink Saturday in the Castro, Dyke March, Civic Center festivities, Juanita More!'s after-Pride Pool Party at Bambuddha Lounge, and of course, the fucking parade. All photos (except the last few) c/o of Darwin Bell. (Thanks Darwin!) Last three parade shots c/o SFBart. For more info on the Cougar Cadet Corps, whose poolside drum major performance was a highlight of our weekend, see the MySpace page. Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by Darwin Bell for The Sword Photo by SFBart on Flickr Photo by SFBart on Flickr Photo by SFBart on Flickr New York 38th Annual Heritage of Pride Parade It turned into a rainy day, but these photos come c/o ScottBx on Flickr. Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by SCottBx on Flickr Photo by No.Nein on Flickr
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As Gay Pride Month Closes ... We Look Back

GAY-CenterSeniorsPart1PB.jpgIn anticipation of this week, we've been collecting footage of Gay Prides past, and wouldn't you know, it wasn't always so tacky and sponsored by beer and vodka makers!  The first "pride" wasn't a parade, but the Christopher Street Gay Liberation March up 6th Avenue in New York in June of 1970, commemorating the one-year anniversary of Stonewall. Then other cities, including San Francisco, launched their own Freedom and Pride celebrations. After the jump, check out some Sword-curated clips of Gay Day '79 in San Francisco, an NYC Pride march and rally in the late 70s, Gay Pride in Chicago around the same period, some footage of Stonewall, and footage from that first march in NYC in 1970.  And yes, pervs, there are many shirtless men running around in them.
Gay Day '79 Part 1 -- San Francisco started their Gay Freedom Day parades in 1971, and eight years later the parade had grown to "over 100,000." In this clip they interview a child who says, "It's nice. It's funny," and when asked what was the funniest thing, he says, naturally, "It's men dressed as women." (Thanks to NedSparks on Youtube.) Gay Day '79 part 2 -- This was the first parade after the murder of SF Supervisor Harvey Milk and Mayor George Moscone in 1978, and this segment of coverage is a little darker, featuring an angry lesbian MC at the Pride fest, as well as an interview with a man named Mick Kowalski who is hovering at the periphery, perhaps about to go postal, because his wife left him for a woman and now he has to watch this parade. Chicago Pride, ca. 1980 -- In this stellar bit of footage shot by an anonymous amateur filmmaker, you'll see a bunch of gays and trannies, stripped down in the summer heat of Chicago, and one guy getting some kind of crown put on his head who says, in a Chicago accent, "Go ask that drag queen for a bobby pin."  Also some scary teens throwing rocks and some dude in a White Power t-shirt! (Thanks to gayculturecentre on Youtube.) Random French Stonewall Tribute -- We think it was made by French lesbian anarchists, and oddly, it ends with an excerpt from South Park. Gay Pride March and Rally at Washington Square Park, NYC -- The year is unclear (late 70s?), and there's an awkward, staged  polemical part at the end, but some of the footage is cool, and at 4:05 or so there are some cute guys who start smoking pot a little while later. The First March, as Told by Gay Seniors -- This clip comes from a video/oral history project by the NYC LGBT Center, interviewing gay and lesbian seniors and using their photographs and personal Super-8 footage. Gay Pride Parade on Polk Street, San Francisco, 1975 - And now this Zen-like bit of silent Super-8 footage from Gay Pride in the Polk in 1975, featuring a drag queen on an elephant.
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Happy 30th Birthday Rainbow Flag !

The flag of modern Pride celebrations has seen three decades of change

“Flags are torn from the soul of the people,” said rainbow flag designer Gilbert Baker on the symbol’s 30th anniversary. “This one was born in a moment of celebration.” When the rainbow flag debuted in San Francisco on June 25, 1978, Baker knew it was special, but had no idea it would become one of the most recognized symbols in the world. That year was the city’s fifth annual Gay Freedom Day parade, which drew 240,000 - 375,000 participants, depending on whose estimates are to be believed. With the looming Briggs initiative--a ballot measure to ban gays and lesbians from working in California schools--and the election of the first openly gay city supervisor, Harvey Milk, eight months earlier, people came out. “No other single political event of the decade drew such a crowd in San Francisco, if not the nation,” according to Milk biographer Randy Shilts. “It was the signal event of the gay emergence in San Francisco during the late 1970s.” “Harvey Milk was a friend of mine,” Baker said, “a teacher.” “Harvey wanted a logo for the event,” said Baker. “I wasn’t sure about a logo. A flag is a political symbol. It is an action.” Baker first came to San Francisco eight years earlier under another flag, that of the Army. He left his hometown of Chanute, Kansas when he was drafted in 1970. But he was afraid of guns and wouldn’t pull the trigger of an M?16. Soon, he refused to even carry one. Baker’s captain in boot camp threatened to send him to Vietnam and put him on the front lines. “You can, but I’m not going to carry a gun,” Baker replied. Finally, Baker agreed to be a medic. Another private shot for him at the range, to make it look like he qualified to pass basic training. The Army shipped him to the Presidio, a base at the northern tip of San Francisco. There, Baker began to discover the gay nightlife. Wrestling with his sexuality, Baker attempted suicide. “After the Army I fell in love,” said Baker, who decided to stay in San Francisco. “It was the first time I questioned the shame I grew up with in Kansas.” “God was on my side,” Baker said. “Gay was good!” “I met Harvey [Milk] around 1974 or 75,” Baker said. “Harvey was smart, a regular guy, kind of a goof, but he had a star quality which allowed him to communicate.” “When Harvey spoke, you felt like your voice was going through him. He was a divine instrument, yet he was not aware of the kind of effect he had on people,” Baker said. “Harvey changed all of us.”

Cotton and dye

From the time he was a child, Baker loved fashion. Today, at 57, he considers himself an artist. In the mid 1970s, he was sewing banners for Milk’s political rallies. “It took me longer to embrace being an artist than being gay,” said Baker. “I wanted to be a doctor, but by the time I got through college, I hated medicine.” “But I was good with my hands, so I turned into sewing. It’s how I plugged into the [gay] movement,” Baker said. “Sewing was activism.” Baker chaired the decorating committee for the 1978 Gay Freedom Day event and was given a budget of $1,000. “We blew it on fabric and dye,” Baker said. “We filled a laundromat in the dead of night,” Baker remembered. “You know, ‘No dying.’ We rinsed the machines with bleach when we were done so no one would get pink underwear.” “The original flags were made of real muslin cotton dyed in all-natural dyes,” Baker said. “The fabric was thin, so when the sun hit them, they looked like silk.” Baker grows quiet recalling those first flags, which rotted from rain and have since been discarded. “You gotta love the rainbow,” Baker said. “It was a natural flag. It’s found in nature. It was obvious. It expresses joy.” The two original flags, hand-stitched by Baker and 30 volunteers measured 40 feet by 60 feet and had eight stripes. Each color represented a component of the gay and lesbian community: hot pink for sexuality, red for life, orange for healing, yellow for sun, green for nature, turquoise for art, indigo for harmony, and violet for spirit. “It was sexy. It was beautiful. It was pretty,” Baker said. The flag lost two stripes when Baker approached the Paramount Flag Company to manufacture flags for the 1979 parade. Hot pink material was not available for the mass-produced flags made of nylon, so that stripe was removed. The parade committee didn’t like a flag with seven stripes. They wanted an even number so half the colors could line each side of the street. The turquoise was subsequently removed and the indigo changed to royal blue. Today, Baker is re-introducing the original design alongside the common six-color version. In 2004 he created flags for all 50 states and U.S. territories using the eight-color motif as a gimmick to promote LGBT voter participation. The state flags are not generally mass produced.

Design was never copyrighted

Baker bristles at any suggestion that it’s his flag. “It’s our flag,” he says, thrilled that it has been interpreted so many ways, including designs for Leather Pride and Bear Pride. The Victory over AIDS flag is a rainbow with a black stripe attached to the violet stripe in memory of those lost to AIDS. When a cure is found, the black stripes are to be removed. “Go for it. Whatever you want,” is Baker’s answer to anyone looking to interpret the design. He has fought to keep the design in the public domain even though it has meant he has never collected any royalties for it. To ensure that no one else could ever copyright the design, Baker applied for a copyright himself in 2002 so the patent office would have to issue a letter declaring the design public domain. “I never made money,” Baker said. “I always had to struggle to pay the rent.” Baker’s second most notable flag design graced the 1984 Democratic National Convention. “I did it for respect,” said Baker. “That way I wasn’t just the gay flag guy, and it gave me the ability to be taken seriously and take the rainbow farther. The rainbow flag is my life.”

Flag assumes a new meaning

“The flag was born in a moment of celebration, but its meaning began to evolve,” Baker said. The first time it evolved was five months after its debut, when Milk was assassinated in City Hall with San Francisco mayor George Moscone, by former supervisor Dan White. Milk had thought White was a closet case and dangerous. When White resigned, then weeks later asked to be reinstated, Milk opposed it. White, a former police officer, was backed by conservative business interests. His vote made a majority against Milk and Moscone’s progressive city vision. Without White on the board, Milk had the votes to pass his rent control ordinance, angering the realtors White courted. White disliked Milk and disliked gays. Their animosity toward each other grew. Milk worked on Moscone, telling him that he would lose the gay vote if he re-appointed White, and White knew what Milk was doing. A few days before White killed Milk, Charles Morris, the publisher of a small gay newspaper, ran into White at a political fundraiser. “There are some in the gay community who think you might be anti-gay,” Morris commented to White. “Let me tell you right now,” White replied, “I’ve got a real surprise for the gay community--a real surprise.” He turned and walked quickly away. On the morning of November 27, 1978, White entered City Hall through a men’s room window to avoid metal detectors. He shot Mayor Moscone to death, then loaded his revolver with special bullets for Milk, hollow-tipped rounds that expand on impact. He entered Milk’s office and shot him four times, the final shot to the head. “After that, the flag took on a defiant tone,” Baker said. “We were not going back.” “I remember where I was when I heard the news,” he added. “I was shopping in Haight-Ashbury for fabric and I heard it on the radio.” “I ran back to City Hall where a huge crowd was gathering. It was insane. It was wrenching. We saw the bodies get carried out and we couldn’t believe it. It was wrenching.” Baker said after a while the crowd left City Hall and went to homes and other meeting places to plan the demonstrations that night and the following days, where the rainbow flag would also be present. “Other gay people were getting murdered, too,” Baker said. “And Milk’s murder was a reminder that the violence around us was real and ever-present.” “A few years later, when half my friends died of AIDS, I was more prepared to deal with it,” Baker said. “We were aware of death and now about to fight it.” That’s when the flag evolved again, according to Baker. “AIDS was 24/7/365. Gay Pride was one day a year,” Baker said. “There’s a grey area between AIDS and gay,” Baker said. “That’s why I liked the ACT UP ‘Silence = Death’ triangle as a symbol, too.” “The rainbow expresses light, the triangle is dark,” said Baker.

Banner is now Baker’s life

The rainbow flag has become Baker’s life focus. His time is now spent promoting it, and finding new ways to make statements with it. In 1994, Baker created a mile-long rainbow flag for the 25th anniversary of the Stonewall riots in New York City. He sewed the entire banner himself. Recently, he has taken up sailing, and has designed floating rainbow installments along New York’s Hudson River. He also travels. “The flag has allowed me to experience Gay Pride in other countries,” Baker said. “We have old people running the movement here,” he said. “It’s not like that in Europe. It’s very different there.” “It’s not important that young LGBT people know who we were,” Baker said. “They have Google for whatever they need to know. It’s important that they know who they are, and they do. That’s how we move forward.” Baker has also organized a program with Absolute vodka of rainbow specialty items, including a decorative case that fits around their bottles, to raise money for InterPride, the International Association of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Intersex Pride Coordinators. The money will also be used for scholarships. The website for that project goes up June 11. Baker gives credit for the rainbow flag’s success to all who display it and all who photograph it. “Gay photographers helped propel the image around the world,” Baker said. “Pride is an image. It’s not just an event.

 

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Scenes From A Gay Marriage

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Another Funny Big Gay Sketch Show Video

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NPR On Gay Bar Extinction

 
  On Friday, NPR's Marketplace show discussed the rash of gay bar closures around the country, citing Fortune Magazine's recent list of "10 Businesses Heading For Extinction", which includes gay bars. Listen to the audio here. An excerpt:
Every year, Fortune Magazine releases a list of 10 businesses it thinks are facing extinction. Some of this year's casualties? Record stores, crop dusting and telemarketing. Oh, and gay bars, too. That one caught our eye because gay business in general is booming. Stacey Vanek Smith has more. STACEY VANEK-SMITH: It's a busy weekend night at a gay bar in Los Angeles. Actor Jason Dottley says gay bars don't just cater to a gay clientele anymore. The scene has become a lot more mixed.Jason Dottley: It's an indication of open-mindedness. I think it's a sign of progress. But that progress has a left some older gay bars sounding like this . . . [sound of ocean waves crashing]. The Boom Boom Room opened in Laguna Beach in 1947. It used to be a favorite hangout of Rock Hudson's. But today the windows of the white, art-deco facade are papered over. Fred Karger started coming here in 1973. Fred Karger: It's a magical place. It had a little, kind of loungey bar, and it had pool tables. They'd have this wonderful cabaret show on Wednesday nights. The new owner plans to tear down the Boom Boom Room and build a luxury hotel. Gay bars all over the country have met similar fates: New York's Roxy, The Avalon in Boston, The Pendulum in San Francisco. But here's the weird thing: Gay business is booming. Gay spending power in the U.S. is worth an estimated $750 billion. So why are gay bars having so much trouble? Marketing expert Jerry McHugh says part of it is generational. Jerry McHugh: Generation X people and Generation Y people are less concerned about gay-exclusive socialization, and they're more interested in a more-diverse environment. McHugh says for gay boomers, bars used to function like community centers. McHugh: When I came out it was the early 90s, and it was really helpful to go to these places. Boston Globe writer Robert David Sullivan says a few years ago he noticed the number of gay bars in Boston had been cut in half. He says it was strange because they had been such a cornerstone of the gay social scene. Robert David Sullivan: It was sort of structured that you could meet people that way, and you could say things and not censor yourself. Sullivan says today young, gay men and women use the Internet, not bars, to meet people. And the older generation has graduated from late-night bar hopping to a mellow meal out.    
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The Big Gay Sketch Show

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